{"id":1689,"date":"2013-03-16T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2013-03-15T17:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/35.224.237.165\/index.php\/2019\/02\/25\/no-im-not-a-fuccboi-yes-im-sleeping-with-both-girls-in-my-sosc-class\/"},"modified":"2019-02-26T04:58:13","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T21:58:13","slug":"no-im-not-a-fuccboi-yes-im-sleeping-with-both-girls-in-my-sosc-class","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chicagoshadydealer.com\/index.php\/2013\/03\/16\/no-im-not-a-fuccboi-yes-im-sleeping-with-both-girls-in-my-sosc-class\/","title":{"rendered":"No, I&#8217;m Not a Fuccboi; Yes, I&#8217;m Sleeping with Both Girls in My SOSC Class"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img src=\"\" alt=\" \" \/><\/p>\n<h6>By <a href=\"\/search?author=Liam Coles\">Liam Coles<\/a><\/h6>\n<h6>Jan. 17, 2017<\/h6>\n<p><insert class=\"ins cts-1\" data-cid=\"2\" data-time=\"1484613362660\" data-userid=\"23\" data-username=\"Jacob Levin\">Recently<delete class=\"del cts-2\" data-cid=\"3\" data-time=\"1484703117542\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">,<\/delete> I had an experience<delete class=\"del cts-2\" data-cid=\"4\" data-time=\"1484703121412\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">,<\/delete> which I found not only wildly offensive but also frankly inaccurate. My good friend David and I were hanging out, and I was going over girls I would totally smash. Then, out of nowhere, he accused me of being \u201csort of a fuccboi.\u201d Apparently, among my friend group, that\u2019s my \u201crep.\u201d<\/insert><\/p>\n<p><insert class=\"ins cts-1\" data-cid=\"2\" data-time=\"1484613362660\" data-userid=\"23\" data-username=\"Jacob Levin\">            I was hurt; I\u2019m such a nice guy! I immediately asked him how the hell he could come to such a conclusion, and the only thing he could think of was that I was sleeping with both of the girls in my <em>Power<\/em> section. Like what? <insert class=\"ins cts-2\" data-cid=\"6\" data-time=\"1484703198757\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">That<\/insert><delete class=\"del cts-2\" data-cid=\"5\" data-time=\"1484703198755\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">This<\/delete> makes no sense. <\/insert><\/p>\n<p><insert class=\"ins cts-1\" data-cid=\"2\" data-time=\"1484613362660\" data-userid=\"23\" data-username=\"Jacob Levin\">            I thought slut-shaming was <insert class=\"ins cts-2\" data-cid=\"11\" data-time=\"1484703246065\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">bad<\/insert><delete class=\"del cts-2\" data-cid=\"10\" data-time=\"1484703246063\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">not ok<\/delete>, but apparently <insert class=\"ins cts-2\" data-cid=\"29\" data-time=\"1484703399728\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">David thinks <\/insert>it\u2019s ok to do it to guys<delete class=\"del cts-2\" data-cid=\"27\" data-time=\"1484703375899\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">?<\/delete><insert class=\"ins cts-2\" data-cid=\"28\" data-time=\"1484703376048\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">.<\/insert> I am just sleeping with both girls without either one knowing about the other. They both <insert class=\"ins cts-2\" data-cid=\"16\" data-time=\"1484703283805\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">consented<\/insert><delete class=\"del cts-2\" data-cid=\"14\" data-time=\"1484703282761\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">consensually agreed<\/delete> to their actions, but just <insert class=\"ins cts-3\" data-cid=\"15\" data-time=\"1484783533306\" data-userid=\"28\" data-username=\"Nik Varley\">because<\/insert><delete class=\"del cts-3\" data-cid=\"7\" data-time=\"1484783532174\" data-userid=\"28\" data-username=\"Nik Varley\">since<\/delete> I\u2019m <delete class=\"del cts-3\" data-cid=\"23\" data-time=\"1484783558283\" data-userid=\"28\" data-username=\"Nik Varley\">just kind of <\/delete>\u201cstringing them both along for the sex,\u201d people are calling me a \u201cfuccboi.\u201d This is outrageous. Fuccbois are total jerks and are in frats. That is just not me.<\/insert><\/p>\n<p><insert class=\"ins cts-1\" data-cid=\"2\" data-time=\"1484613362660\" data-userid=\"23\" data-username=\"Jacob Levin\">            My friend says that I should \u201cstop playing with their emotions and at least go on a date with one of them,\u201d but I just don\u2019t want to. Neither is my intellectual equal. For example, when we were reading Simone de Beauvoir, they totally didn\u2019t get it. I tried explaining her argument to them in class discussion so they could better understand it, but they clearly weren\u2019t into learning. I need girls who will intellectually challenge me, and I don\u2019t want to be unfair to them. S<insert class=\"ins cts-3\" data-cid=\"30\" data-time=\"1484783645765\" data-userid=\"28\" data-username=\"Nik Varley\">ex<\/insert><delete class=\"del cts-3\" data-cid=\"24\" data-time=\"1484783645760\" data-userid=\"28\" data-username=\"Nik Varley\">leeping with them<\/delete> is the best thing I could be doing for <insert class=\"ins cts-3\" data-cid=\"17\" data-time=\"1484783732505\" data-userid=\"28\" data-username=\"Nik Varley\">either<\/insert><delete class=\"del cts-3\" data-cid=\"8\" data-time=\"1484783731654\" data-userid=\"28\" data-username=\"Nik Varley\">each<\/delete> of them. <\/insert><\/p>\n<p><insert class=\"ins cts-1\" data-cid=\"2\" data-time=\"1484613362660\" data-userid=\"23\" data-username=\"Jacob Levin\">            Nice guys like me never get a break. It\u2019s either I get friendzoned, or just end up getting impugned for the choices I make with my body. I\u2019m tired of all of this. As a feminist myself, I find that guys have just as hard of a time as women, and I <delete class=\"del cts-2\" data-cid=\"43\" data-time=\"1484703736494\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">think I <\/delete>am a perfect example of this. <\/insert><\/p>\n<p><insert class=\"ins cts-1\" data-cid=\"2\" data-time=\"1484613362660\" data-userid=\"23\" data-username=\"Jacob Levin\">David, politely, go fuck yourself<delete class=\"del cts-2\" data-cid=\"25\" data-time=\"1484703355476\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">;<\/delete><insert class=\"ins cts-2\" data-cid=\"26\" data-time=\"1484703356001\" data-userid=\"8\" data-username=\"Ryan Fleishman\">.<\/insert> I\u2019m a gentleman. <\/insert><\/p>\n<p><insert class=\"ins cts-1\" data-cid=\"2\" data-time=\"1484613362660\" data-userid=\"23\" data-username=\"Jacob Levin\"> <\/insert><\/p>\n<p><insert class=\"ins cts-1\" data-cid=\"2\" data-time=\"1484613362660\" data-userid=\"23\" data-username=\"Jacob Levin\">FOR THE RECORD: <em>fuccboi <\/em>is pronounced \u201cfook-bwa\u201d<\/insert><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Liam Coles Jan. 17, 2017 Recently, I had an experience, which I found not only wildly offensive but also frankly inaccurate. My good friend David and I were hanging out, and I was going over girls I would totally smash. Then, out of nowhere, he accused me of being \u201csort of a fuccboi.\u201d Apparently, among my friend group, that\u2019s my \u201crep.\u201d I was hurt; I\u2019m such a nice guy! I immediately asked him how the hell he could come to such a conclusion, and the only thing he could think of was that I was sleeping with both of the girls in my Power section. Like what? ThatThis makes no sense. I thought slut-shaming was badnot ok, but apparently David thinks it\u2019s ok to do it to guys?. I am just sleeping with both girls without either one knowing about the other. They both consentedconsensually agreed to their actions, but just becausesince I\u2019m just kind of \u201cstringing them both along for the sex,\u201d people are calling me a \u201cfuccboi.\u201d This is outrageous. Fuccbois are total jerks and are in frats. That is just not me. My friend says that I should \u201cstop playing with their emotions and at least go on a date with one of them,\u201d but I just don\u2019t want to. Neither is my intellectual equal. For example, when we were reading Simone de Beauvoir, they totally didn\u2019t get it. I tried explaining her argument to them in class discussion so they could better understand it, but they clearly weren\u2019t into learning. I need girls who will intellectually challenge me, and I don\u2019t want to be unfair to them. Sexleeping with them is the best thing I could be doing for eithereach of them. Nice guys like me never get a break. It\u2019s either I get friendzoned, or just end up getting impugned for the choices I make with my body. I\u2019m tired of all of this. As a feminist myself, I find that guys have just as hard of a time as women, and I think I am a perfect example of this. David, politely, go fuck yourself;. I\u2019m a gentleman. 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